Chapter 5

Romance scams

What you'll get from this chapter: How romance scams start, the moment they turn to money, and why a video call is no longer proof that someone is real.

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  1. Words in this chapter
  2. Your steps

Part I: Internet Survival Kit · Chapter 5 of 7

Last reviewed: October 18, 2026

A uses affection, or the promise of it, to get money from you.

The person may arrive on a dating site, in a social-media message, or as a wrong number that keeps talking. They are warm, they have a reason they cannot meet, and the conversation turns to money. Sometimes it is a medical bill or a travel emergency. Often it becomes a private investment. They may never ask for a date in person.

Do not send money, gift cards, or cryptocurrency to someone you have not met in person. A video call does not prove the relationship is real, because video can be staged or generated by computer. If the talk turns to an investment, stop. That pattern, called , is covered in Part II: Crypto Survival Kit, Chapter 10.

Scammers do not only hide in messages. Sometimes they hide in a little square barcode. The next chapter covers QR-code lures.

Words in this chapter

  • . A relationship used to extract money. It may never meet in person, and it often turns into an investment pitch.

Your steps

NEXT STEP

Open the Scam Scenarios drill in the Field Kit. Then continue to Chapter 6: QR code lures.

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